Get Off Your High Horse

You may be familiar with the phrase "riding your high horse." This expression originated in the 14th-century practice in which knights and royalty rode tall, powerful horses—often called "great horses" or chargers—to signify their superior rank and authority. Over time, in the 18th century, it evolved into a metaphor describing someone who behaves arrogantly, self-righteously, or condescendingly.

One of the healthiest questions we can ask ourselves is whether we are on our high horse or not. Are we on our high horse during arguments at home? Are we on our high horse when conflicts arise at work? Are we on our high horse during disagreements over politics or current events?

To help with these questions, consider the following:
(1) If you think you're always right, that's a sign you need to get off your high horse. Similarly, if you feel the need to correct everyone who disagrees with you on an issue or a political matter, you're likely displaying "high horse" behavior. Even more concerning is when those disagreements escalate into social media clashes, verbal arguments, or physical confrontations. We must remember that the Lord sees and examines our hearts and ways. Proverbs 21:2 says, "People may be right in their own eyes, but the LORD examines the heart."

(2) Pay attention to whether you are using belittling language, insults, or profanity when interacting with those who do not share your opinions. Observe if your communication—whether in person, on the phone, or through social media—has become toxic. If it has, then you need to recognize that the problem may lie with you. Remember the words of Jesus in Luke 6:45, which says, "A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart."

With this in mind, if you find yourself in constant conflict with others, take a moment to reflect and ask yourself, "Who is the common denominator?"
Confess your proud ways and profanity, and focus on acting right rather than trying to be right.

Taking these actions is wise because, eventually, your own pride will knock you off that high horse, leading to the loss of jobs, friends, and God's blessing. After all, pride comes before the fall from the horse.